I thought it was time I updated this to reflect the passage of time….

Let me start out with a fast rundown on myself. I’m in my mid-fifties, college educated, retired military, with a serious fascination about the world around me. I hold a steady job, (I work for the government, believe it or not) keep my bills paid, have my retirement well in hand, and mind my own business.

I keep an extremely low-profile lifestyle; not because I am hiding anything, but I believe in minding my own business and letting everyone else do the same. I’m not interested in passing judgments on anyone’s anything, so I shut up most of the time, and simply observe.

I’m the guy in the room that watched everyone, smiled politely, and barely said a word the entire time.

I love to read, (sci-fi mostly) enjoy documentaries, video games (so I’m a geek), working on a Master’s in Psychology, and contemplating retiring for good from the workforce. It’s become increasing harder to find any enjoyment in what I do, and there is entirely too much time spent having to watch out for the next knife will come from.

I live in Wichita, Kansas (which ain’t known to be the most progressive place in America) which can be…. interesting at times. It means that I can’t be nearly as open and forthcoming about a great many things, as I may wish to be. A lot of people spend their entire time looking for things about others to drag into the public arena, because they don’t agree with the way they talk, think, etc. It’s completely silly and pointless for adults to have this mindset, but……. here we are. That’s why I am so intensely private.

I’m not hung up on the notion of what I call traditional sexuality. I believe that what interests you about someone, interests you, gender be damned. I give less than a solitary damn about the labels that get hung on people, nor ever cared about what people thought about my approach to that part of life.

I’d be lying if I said that I didn’t find you ladies both intensely fascinating, and unabashedly confident in who you are. And those two things make you so unbelievably sexy and desirable to me. As I said before, I would ABSOLUTELY LOVE to meet any of you, and get to know you better. However, I cannot change the way my life is now (some things just can’t be undone). But just know that if given the chance to meet and become involved (at any level) with any of you, I would consider that one of the high points of my life. And if I am able to go through with my early retirement plans, I plan to make that a reality.

And yes, I know a great many of you (if not most) live with these same issues and concerns, so know that I share your concerns about discretion. I have no desire to cause any uproar, confusion, disruption, or complications in your lives.

I just want to get to know you better.

There are SO MANY of you ladies and Gents that are so unbelievably sexy, that it's impossible for me to comment on all your photos without being repetitious and/or redundant. I'd rather not do that, so I try and look for something original to say, or I just shut up. So please don't think I'm not cognizant of the effort you put into looking as good as you do, or that I'm not so VERY appreciative of that effort. I am, and even if I am being quiet, know that I am just as fascinated, just as spellbound, and just as hopeful that my dream will come true where you are concerned, as I have always been.

I'll take new photos as soon as my world settles in to it's new regimen. Working nights and rotating weekends is still taking some getting used to.

So I didn't get used to it. I was in a job I didn't like, working with and for people I didn't trust, and generally unhappy...so I asked the question we all get to at some point: Why am I putting up with this if I don't have to? So I have retired for good. It's still all new to me, having no fixed schedule, but I'm getting there slowly, and loving every minute of it.