60 with a feminine ego that I finally admitted to myself a few years ago. Married, she knows, no secrets but doesn't understand it so I don't push her. I've kept hidden for so long that I just got exhausted but support and encouragement is limited to me. Looking for friendships and support as I continue my learning journey to be the best I can be. Friends are valued and I respect all confidentialities. Frustrated with Society's impressions of us and would like to work to change their minds with our positive gifts and contributions. I'm working on my looks so I don't attract negative attention and eager to take a step out in the real world as my confidence increases.