Seems like I always don't feel like writing right then, resulting in delay in writing back. My energy for writing is declining. Now I just saw this "last time" caption. If you don't mean you are breaking up you should have said something else. The other day I noticed about your wife being "a reluctant domme ." Tha… Read more

Seems like I always don't feel like writing right then, resulting in delay in writing back. My energy for writing is declining. Now I just saw this "last time" caption. If you don't mean you are breaking up you should have said something else. The other day I noticed about your wife being "a reluctant domme ." That suggested a certain commonality with me. My late wife was never very supportive of my interest in BDSM stuff, in contrast with her highly supportive attitude about my crossdressing. Early on I asked her if she would beat me, and she exclaimed "I'm not a violent person!" She would pinch me on the buttocks, and something might have been made of that, done relentlessly. Years later our last and largest BDSM thing, I spent about 45 minutes bound and gagged at a closet door while she was on the phone with a woman friend. The "reluctant domme" may mean you escape from this assumption many people have about highly committed "slave" relationships. Tom [was known by many as Teresa] Hart, Nashville, Tennessee, US