I am a 67 year old widowed CD and I am very lonely I miss her so much. With that I have come out to my children my sister in law and other family members and they all accept me as Sandy as my dear wife did to. Its a relief for me as I would never had dreamt I would ever tell anyone let alone family.RIP My Dear Kim 2nd August 2022 xxx

I have been this way since I was a small boy and only in later life find i need to be dressed fully when I can. My wife supported me as Sandy i was very lucky to have her as my wife and partner for 45 years. I miss her dearly that's why I changed my name to Sandy Kim In honour of her I am still in the closet regarding some family and friends .I have come out to my children and there partners and my sister in law and her husband and girls but no other family yet its been like a weight off my shoulders

I yearn for the day I can walk out of my front door into my local town as Sandy and not worry about being humiliated and ridiculed in public as I shop on my own or my girlfriends also to be accepted by my neighbours to one day I hope

I have a few girl friends who I meet when we can. I attend Transliving UK weekenders in Bournemouth and Eastbourne .I have been to Sparkle Weekend in Manchester a must for us girls a great weekend on July 2023 roll on July 2024

I have to dress fully with full makeup as you can see by my photos I love my look and dress sence as a big girl I try to blend in as best as I can when out in public

I am a submissive women when sandy and I love being this way and told what to do by the girls and my wife I àlso love doing houswork when sandy I feel relaxed and content when doing the chores

I have confided in a women at work and she has been brilliant with me wanting to hear about our trip outs and showing her all our photos thank you Sue x

I have made some lovely friends on here in both TVs,CDs and male Admirers thanks for all the lovely comments on my photos

Thanks for looking take care and stay safe

I am who i am I can't help being this way I respect everyone's right to be who they are or want to be and I hope to get the same respect back

An update to my currant situation 14/04/23 I have been coming out to my neighbors and more close friends the last week or so. But eventually I walked out of my flat as sandy dressed on Friday lunchtime fully dressed in boots dress jacket etc and 4 of my neighbors saw me and said I looked great and applauded me for coming out and being who I really am I feel accepted by them as a woman

Another update 27/7/23I have been out with the ladies in my street and they accept me as sandy I feel I am ready to be out fully as a woman I even went in Dunstable last Saturday

Futher update 04/10/23 I am now fully retired and will now become sandy more with time on my hands to do so

Sandy Xx