I am over 21, for groups that require this in the profile.

My likes are probably pretty clear from my photostream but basically I enjoy looking at pictures of skirtsuits--on women or tgirls--and smoking pictures, especially cigars. My favorite clothes(both genders) include 3 piece suits, skirtsuits or dress/blazer combos, boots, fetishwear or anything that can be classy and provocative. But it's fun to be surprised by something nice.

Rule of thumb: if I like seeing women in it, I want to try it, provided I find something that fits. And I like getting ideas--whether for a simple or complex look. Right now I'd say I'm strong on clothes and weak on photography/makeup--suggestions for the 2nd are appreciated.

My phone sure helps me take pictures and post them here. I'm also on fetlife (user 358705).

I used to be chistogie (cigars, Chicago) but moved to Lexy Sadie (a spoonerism for sexy lady) and now with all these Lexys I sort of wonder if I should have been Ashley Long, for the long ash I love on my cigars.

I understand if people may dislike smoking, but I hope my outfits make up for that, just as others' outfits and looks make up for things that aren't my fetish, or even compellingly show why they like it.

RE ADDING: if you add me as family, I will probably do the same, provided you have an icon/photostream(preferably with facial view) or nice comments in mine. Generally I add people as friends, or as whatever they added me as, but it's random. I try to follow back, too.

While erotica can be very nice I don't want to force it on anyone (and let me know if I goofed) and a full stream of closeups, etc. does nothing for me--as does a blank one. Men who admire are fine. Send me flickr mail--or add me appropriately--if you'd like to be added at a higher/lower level. Or if I goofed.

Family (racier pics) is more a trust thing, reciprocity for good erotic pics with genitals. Please don't take being added as just a friend/contact as an insult.

Not a big smoker (1 cigar a week, maybe) but w/good clothes it's wonderful. Far less ashamed than before. While I've carved out a niche I'm open to suggestions.

Not looking for relationships, though I like--and hope I send--nice mails. Wish people would write more in comments for anyone's pics on flickr. It takes seconds. It's small things that have often made a difference re: should I post/take this photo set or not?

I like to keep personal stuff away from flickr. It is to focus on the sexy-fun stuff. I've grown to enjoy both (gender) sides of myself though I don't always get out often enough to exercise them. Nonsexy fun stuff gets in the way.

Final PSA--disregard silly excuses for not making that new stream/photoset. I realize I could've done so much of this sooner. Worrying about if not enough see you, or if your pictures get around to coworkers etc., is not the best use of time and energy. Though maybe each needs to find that in his own way.