I was raised the way most people my age where raised. You should treat people the way you want to be treated. Respect your elders and your word is what u r . I dont have time for negativity in my life. If people are always negative then thats what theyll be , negative. One of my favorite sayings is " MISERY LOVES COMPANY" If you pay attention when someone is starting mess , usually they are always unhappy and what makes them happy is to keep other people that way. So I omit them out of my life. I believe in love at first sight and I believe that there is someone meant for you out there somewhere , Its just a matter of being open minded when you meat them. I know that my fiance was meant for me and we had to go through what weve been through to be ready for each other when we found each other. Fate brought me here to him and destiny brought us together and our love will keep us together.