Its not easy finding things to say here, well I'm a 32 yr old British-Mexican, from near Canterbury in the South East tip.

I am very shy and find it hard to pluck up the confidence to contact people (though that's improved a bit recently), especially given the unfortunately well-deserved reputation that guys have with the transgender community but I've always prided myself on showing the real me rather than hiding behind an anonymous and 'dirty' profile, and on treating girls with respect rather than purely as objects of sexual desire, something that's earned me a few wonderful friends on here.

In some ways it would be nice to be able to get closer with people on here if possible but I always want to try and respect boundaries (even if it means erring on the side of caution a lot of the time). I'm a firm believer in trying to develop genuine bonds and relationships with people over time (when I feel the confidence to), rather than jumping in in an inappropriately forward manner. I'm not going to deny that I have developed a more playful side over the years, but I like to show there's a lot more to me than that.

I firmly believe that guys and T-girls can be friends without it getting sexual. I may be pretty quiet but a part of that is genuinely a desire not to make any moves that could be considered unwelcome, which includes only adding people as 'contacts' unless they add me back as something more in case it seems like I'm trying to get too familiar. I certainly wouldn't have the friendships I have if I was anything like what many girls assume guys to be.

Recently I've started exploring my 'other' side (among other things) with the help of a few helpful and supportive friends, and while it'll only ever me a minor and private thing for me, I hope I can continue to explore such a wonderful experience in future and connect with more like-minded people through that on here.