Updated: Feb 23, 2023. Until a few years ago, I was a guy who liked to dress in women's clothes for short periods of time. A couple of years ago I got my first wig. When I put it on and looked in the mirror, something happened: I wasn't a just guy wearing women's clothes, I was a woman. It wasn't just my appearance, something shifted in me, maybe something that was there all along, but mostly suppressed. I hope you can see from my pictures how much I enjoy being a woman.

Why Flickr? By some genetic fluke or something, I know not what, I am a pretty good-looking girl. I have been out in public a little bit, but wanted to share with more people and then also I thought I would find a whole bunch of gurls just like me. I learned very quickly that we are about as diverse as any other group of people, which is ok. I've come to believe that our differences as human beings should be celebrated. Oh, how I've changed from my adolescent years where I would have given anything just to fit in! Now, I love being different.

Authenticity: I've come to value authenticity in my life. It's how I get closer to people. A total of 22 people, including my wife who know me as a male, now know about my female side. They're pretty much all of my close friends and family and all seem ok with it, some more so than others. In pursuit of authenticity, my photos are pretty much unaltered. I do use Photoshop to make little changes where I think the photo makes me look older than I look in real life. Other than a padded bra, I don't use anything to enhance my feminine figure.

I speak of my genetics as if it were nothing but a blessing, but it's not. I have Lynch Syndrome, a genetic condition which has resulted in three major cancers in the last 15 years. That's ok too. It's been a learning experience. I'm so lucky to be alive as a miracle of modern medicine. I was destined to die about 4 1/2 years ago with stage 4 pancreatic cancer, but here I am, currently cancer free. It's like this part of life is a "bonus round."

I'm still a guy most of the time and I think I'm a pretty good male, albeit a bit feminine. I like being a guy too. Basically in terms of gender, I'm all over the place.

I live in the midwestern US, not too far from Kansas City.

I'm very accepting of everyone. I probably won't block you, we're all humans, doing what humans do. However, I don't need to see pictures of anybody's genitals or butts. Some admirers have begun to pry their way into my heart, but generally I'm just attracted to other crossdressers and genetic females. I have no reason to follow anyone who doesn't post anything public. My time is pretty limited, but I love comments and compliments...what girl doesn't love compliments? I'll try to respond to everybody who comments on my pictures. I thank all of you for this opportunity to be me!