Hello, welcome to my page.

I am new to Flickr as of 21/05/21, this is my first step into a wider world that I have hidden from for a very long time.

I first started dressing when I was 6 years old, I was caught a few times by my mother over the first year but no matter how mad she got I just could just not stop myself.

The feel of her tights on my legs when I wore them (tights being the first thing I ever tried wearing) was mesmerizing.

By the time I was 9 my mother and father had divorced, I stayed with my mother but would drive her mad by constantly wearing her things, in the end, she gave up trying to stop me and so I took this as an ok to wear her things around the house every chance I got, she wasn't pleased and for a long time stopped any family or friends coming to the house.

When I was 13 she tried one last time to get me to stop dressing by taking me to town dressed from head to toe in female attire, this in the year 1981, as you can imagine it did not go down well and led to a lot of bullying at school and subsequent long terms of truancy until I was 16 and left school.

The 3 years between Mother taking me to town like that and me leaving school caused our relationship to suffer and soon after leaving school I left home and moved to London to get away from everyone and everything.

While London was more accepting of such a lifestyle it still wasn't easy but thankfully attitudes are starting to change and I am now able to live my life full time as I always wanted it to be, my only regret is that I could not repair things with my mother before she died but then what is life without a few regrets.

I did marry at 22 and stayed married for over 10 years but as I look back on it I think this was just a kind of camouflage to hide what I truly was, My then-wife was and still is an amazing person, she accepted my dressing and even gave me tips and taught me to do my makeup and I did try very hard to make our marriage work but the truth is as well as being a dresser I am also gay.

In the end, we did divorce, we never had children and the divorce was very amicable, she has told me that in a way she always knew I was gay but I was her best friend and I treated her better than any other man had done and despite us divorcing she wanted us to remain friends and this we have done, she is the love of my life but more as a sister.

I will at some point add pictures here but first I want to know what this site is like, IE tolerant of what I am, friendly people, and generally a fun place to hang out.

As for what I am like, well I am 5ft7 and 149lbs, I have my own long brunette hair with hazel eyes, I have been on hormones now for 4 years and have developed 32B breasts (about the right size I think for my height and weight) I have smooth tanned skin, legs that at least don't look out of place in tights and a skirt lol, and what I'm told is a shapely bottom.

While I have been on hormones to develop and maintain my breasts I think this is as far as I will go transition wise, because of this and this alone I call myself a dresser instead of a transexual, This is just personal to me and not a reflection on how I see or think about others.

I Will add more as it comes along and when happy this site is a good fit for me I will start to up load some pictures.