I am a married heterosexual male Crossdresser. I guess I can say I am also closeted. My wife does know about my crossdressing and she is trying to support it. She has not asked to see me dressed and I don't push it. She has been shopping with me and allowed me to buy something (a dress) for me. It certainly makes it easier buying women's (Large size) clothing when she is with me.

What every CD wants to know. How did you tell your wife? Well, she intercepted a package with a large top and skirt in it. She asked if I was buying stuff for another woman outside the marriage. I responded no, but knew I had tell her at some point. We were alone one night shortly after and I grabbed the first dress I had ever bought (still fits by the way). I had also printed out a article I found about crossdressing. I told her we had to talk. She turned off the TV and I just came out with it. I am NOT having an affair, the clothes you seen were for me, and I have been crossdressing for years, even before we were married. This is the first dress I bought at the age of 16, and I showed her the dress. Her first question was the obvious one, are you gay? Her second one was, who knows about it? And of course, do you plan to transition? She did inform me that Jenner did transition. She knows more than me. lol

So where do we stand today? We have agreed to keep this just between us, and I am good with that. We found a 100 question crossdresser article and she asked me to answer the questions. She has also read the book "Living with a crossdresser" and has others she wants to read. We talk openly about it, and she does not restrict me from dressing, just not in front of her. I am lucky to have her support.

As for me. I love SATIN. Let me say that again, I LOVE SATIN. I love long full prom/homecoming/bridesmaid/wedding dresses. Some of you have probably bid against me on eBay. lol Someone asked "Why would a CD look at another CD if they are not gay?" I guess for me, I only look at the ones that don't show their junk. I like to see the wig they wear, how they do their make up, and of course what satin dress, corset, or skirt they are wearing. I also love the high heeled shoes. Most times I am amazed at how well they can transition.

What's next for me? Take it one day at a time and enjoy what I have. A loving wife that supports me and is willing to take it a day at a time. Oh and I guess I should answer the question "Why did you wait so long to tell your wife?" I am not sure I ever would have, had she not found the package. I guess I really never thought I was a crossdresser until the kids left the house and now I can buy and dress when I want. So I never really considered it to be such a big part of my life. I was also afraid of losing her. It is a great relief knowing she knows, and some what supports it.

So there it is. If you send me message, just know I am NOT looking to hook up. I would love to chat with similar people married in my position. How do you communicate with your wife? Hell, who knows, maybe the wives would become friends. Where do you find dresses and shoes? And any other tips you might have. Also does anyone know of a CD clothing exchange? I have a bunch of stuff I would love to trade for something that does fit. You know, buy online and hope it fits when it gets here. UGH!!! lol

Thanks Shelby.

PS. NO ONE has my permission to use any of my photos without my consent. Thank You/