I’m a gender-fluid transvestite.

I’m not obsessed with labels - nor with pronouns. You may call me a crossdresser, a sissy, a queer, he, she or it, if you like, as long as you say it nicely. 😉

I was born male and I identify as male, but not as man. There is a difference.

I love women. I crave femininity.

However, I do not try to “pass” as a woman. Although I very occasionally opt for the full transformation, including wig and false breasts (mainly when I’m presenting as a sissy or a maid) I most wear women’s clothes with my own short hair ands no false breasts - and light makeup.

I live most of my life in women’s clothes.

At work I am required to present as a professional male and wear a men’s suit, and pretend to be outwardly a man, but I am always wearing pantyhose or stockings, with panties and, occasionally a camisole underneath.

But at all other times you’ll find me wearing denim cutoffs, women’s shorts, hot pants or a sexy skirt over my pantyhose or stocking sheathed legs, with women’s heels or boots.

My legs and body are free of any hair and I visit a waxing salon regularly.

I am essentially heterosexual in orientation but enjoy the company, socially of men and women, both genetic and trans, and anyone in between on the gender spectrum.

I love going shopping, to bars, restaurants and shows with in the company of women and other crossdressers or androgynous types with similar interests ands fetishes.

My overriding love is women’s hosiery - especially sheer and glossy Wolford Neon 40 in the summer, and Wolford Satin Opaque 50 or Falke Pure Matt 50 and 80 in cooler months.

I also cannot resist women’s high heeled shoes and boots and love shopping for them.

I am based in Berlin, but travel extensively and frequently.

If you’re interested in starting a dialogue, and maybe catching up, even going out shopping of for a drink, I’d love to hear from you.