Stacey has been part of my life......for all of my life. I am very fortunate that my wife knows about Stacey, she is OK with her.....as long as she stays in her box. It is worth defining this.

My wife never signed up for Stacey, i told her later in our marriage, so she has every right to be 'concerned'. She is also, by upbringing, not a very Bohemian type of person, but she is super thoughtful and very intelligent. She struggles with Stacey being part of our marriage and has good days and bad days which keeps me on my back foot somewhat as i never quiet know what i am going to get.

This being said, she kind of gets that letting me be Stacey is important to the our ability to function really well as a married couple......well i think she gets it. If you strip out Stacey from who i am, i don't think there is anything of me left. Who am i if Stacey who has been a part of me all my life is not allowed to exist?

Managed to step out for a bit when I lived in the UK and frankly had the time of my life 😀. Since moving to Canada I have tried to venture out, came real close with the help of a good friend but failed at the threshold. The need to do so and meet with other girls grows stronger every day but it needs to be in a very controlled manner. I have no interest in shopping 'en-femme' or fitting in and being accepted by the regular world. The thought of being 'made' and then judged does nothing for me.

I guess i know who i am these days and who i want to be going forward. I have no deep longing to be a woman, but i do absolutely adore transforming myself into something as feminine as can be when i get the chance and i am in the mood. I do wish, i think, that i lived in a world where i could wear what ever i wanted, look what ever way i wanted to look and not be judged. I'd like to live in a world where i was still be considered to be 'all man' even though i was dressed up really pretty and totally feminine in the traditional sense of the word......that would be the greatest place to live wouldn't it?

My wardrobe is constantly growing now and I continuously want to get better at looking like the vision of the girl I have in my head and try new looks. If anyone knows of the holy grail of shoes store for girls with size 12 feet......please let me know. God i love shoes.......and bags and fancy bras ......oh the list goes on.

I guess like all of us, I love to pick up nice comments and I also welcome advice and constructive criticism as I strive to improve.

Have little / no interest in the naked or semi naked pics that get posted. Love to see any girl who is trying and puts in an effort despite whatever circumstances we find ourselves in to look like the girl they want to be in their head.

Most of you inspire me

Men.....always be gentlemen

Happy to hear from you folks on Flickr and hope to meet some of you in person one of these days

If you wish to write to me please use regular email....... Staceyj42@outlook.com, i hardly ever go on Flickr mail so will likely miss your post :)