April 2026

Some major updates on my disclosure to my wife on my dressing up She has been great so far in acceptance and shopping participation The issue of wigs and make etc have been overcome. I one afternoon went to a Makeup artist that did both my make up and hair to suit the outfit I had brough with me to dress into Early evening I headed home ( after doing a bit of shopping for myself fully dressed) arriving at home just before dinner, pulling into the garage getting myself all straightened up checking make up and hair etc and walking in with a bunch of flowers for my wife. She was a bit stunned stood there looking at me then asking if anyone on the street saw me I told her no she looked me over a few time did not say anything we set up to have dinner I could see her checking me out as we ate dinner she said I looked nice I told her how excited I was to show her the full me as we ate we chatted on how I felt and why she chatted about people in the area and town seeing me like this and her concerns during this chat I offered we take a long week end to get away some where far enough she would be at ease and I would be fem for the entire trip telling her it was a long term dream I have She agreed

I was so excited thinking what do I bring how do I want to look for her seeing fem for these days I think I went thought 2025 outfits on what she would like to see and not too revealing

Day of travel I was fully dressed as in one photo posted She was surprised that no reaction from people we got to the hotel unpacked of course I took the full closet and my wife laughed and she she was expecting that with all I had packed for the trip Well I was fem for the full time sleeping as fem waking up and getting ready for the day etc full 24 hours a day and night in fem I had so many outfits with me lol well every day there was 2 outfits day time to tour around and evening for dinner and obviously a different nighty for each night She (wife) was very supportive did not back away or walk in front or behind me she walked with me we had no issues she did not seem embarrassed or ashamed we even when shopping a few times with her and the sales lady picking out items to try on ( I was so so excited during this) I was afraid it would show too much but all was good I would dress into the outfit the sales lady would adjust or straighten it out and they both would look and say yes no or what's missing I did hear the two of them talking about me but not sure what it was said

Well a few outfits bought lunch and dinners out and about we had a great time I told my wife how very much I value and apricate what she is doing to allow me to dress up and she said I can see this is your fantasy/dream Her only concern at this point is friends family and work associated finding out So once home we will chat about limitations but she did agree to another trip soon but longer 7 -10 day full fem

  

Feb 2026

Well I followed through with some of wife's suggestions, Bought a new pr breasts (silicone) have gone for full body waxing (Christmas gift from wife) and went to have both toe and finger nails done. I went to a new salon as to not have the girls there say hello Denise how have you been or you want the same technician. We have gone shopping and bought some jewelry (mostly costume) for me ( I can start to pullout slowly all the jewelry I already have that she is not aware of as well as some of the nail polishes I have as well all the boxes and boxes of fake nails I have been using. I have started to point out different hair styles and colors to her we see on women as the pass by getting her reaction on each I will for the next week or two point out more women's hair to get idea of what she likes trying to lead her to at lease one I already have if not a reason to get another one lol I have also been going through my long list of photos to select a few to post with my face which I will post very soon.

I am so excited and anxious about being able to come out fully as Denise all done up at that point I be working on her for us heading out in public with me all done up ...

  

Jan 2026

Things have been advancing with my introduction to my wife so far she thinks this discovery on my enjoying to dress up is being developed now by both of us. Which is what I dream for thus no issues of you been hiding things from me or who are you etc.... Its been a slow process and I have been learning and seeing certain limits that make her not at ease or uncomfortable But we are working these out a bit of give and take... She has suggested I need to get larger breasts (silicone) Yea I was disappointed hoping for real ones or start HRT lol also she has been mentioning I should go to a manicurist for my toe nails painted on my hands I use glue on. So to summarize she is ok with lingerie, dresses etc, heels, toes and nail polish Fake breasts, jewelry and accessories, purses (we just bough 2 for me..) I will slowly pull out 1 by 1 the ones I already have lol The big step is the wigs We are going shopping for outfits for me in an area where I know there are 2 nice wig shops Once I have her accepting wigs Make up will be no issue

 

Being in Montreal there is no end to great places to shop, cafes and restaurants etc I have slowly been getting braver to show my face in my photos but will wait until I get wife willing to take photos again to avoid shock and get her to participate

again my goal is to have her accepting this and by having her feel we discover this at the same time I still think is the best way for her to see, experience and participate Currently I do enjoy lounging around the house dressed and in nice lounge and sleep ware this is why your seeing new photos of my day to day wear but don't worry I am not going "Suburban House Wife" with the terry house coat and curlers...

Spring can not come fast enough .......

  

Nov 2025

Well I have been enjoying the fact that my wife knows a bit about my dressing up We have enjoyed a number of shopping trips for lingerie and outfits for me. I have recently gotten my wife to accept painted toes and nails and have bought a few pr of fake nails and matching nail polish for my toes I have also been slowly pulling out of my (Hidden Closet) a few more pr of nails and many more colored polishes I dream of having a nail polish rack with different colors like the nail salons lol

My wife the other day saw a pr of heels and said she thinks I would like them Which I did and bought them she is really ok with the clothing part of me dress up so far I was hoping to breach the subject of Make up and Hair with her for Halloween but some family oriented issues popped up So I hesitated to open the subject at that time .. I so what to get her on board with make up and hair i have so many wigs already and some make up from the make up artists I have used in the past

So at this point I have her accepting and participating in shopping and me dressing up in Lingerie, wearing panties almost everyday, being able to lounge around the house sleep in nice nighties etc. wearing Dresses, skirts, jumpsuits, blouse and skirts or slacks of course always with hose and heels I must be up to 60-70 pr of heels now She (wife) even spots well dressed women in public or TV and says "that is cute or sharp" do you like that?? she asks ..in most cases I say YES>>>> then we try to find it for me She even told me once to go ask the woman where she bought her outfit telling her its for my wife ... lol Re the make up and wigs I am thinking of setting up and make over session with someone (None that I am aware of here in Montreal) and bring my wife thus opening her up to make up and hair.... Lt me know what you think of this way to open the subject and her able to see me all made up make up, eyelashes, lipstick nails and hair maybe have this person do 2-3 different looks to see which one wife comments on Note wife does not wear make up .. the last piece of the puzzle I hope as I so want to put my face out there in my postings.... Currently she does not know I post here or chat with some of the girls here

  

Sept 2025

Sorry for the delay in updating my profile and addition of new photos Well if you been following, I have been opening up to my wife about my crossdressing and desire to express my feminine side. I have been taking baby steps At this point many advancements have been made. We have shopped tougher a few times for lingerie, nylons heels and dresses. and she has been great in the process even pointing out different outfits that might look good on me. She has also suggested I move my items into our closet due to the number of items I have now ( the one she knows about, I still have huge walking in closet in sub basement full) I have made a number of built in drawers (8) to house my Lingerie, nylons, teddies/bodysuits & nighties I have been enjoying the openness and freedom to slip in to something more comfortable and to sleep occasionally in nighties and alike. I am about to open up to her on wanting some wigs and make up ( I have a number of them as you see in my photos but all hidden away in my basement closet) Every few days I pull something out of my basement closet to show her what I got today ...(her thinking I had bought that day)

So I can get almost full dolled up at home with her, in my Lingerie, nylons, nighties or dresses or skirt and blouse and heels She has seen me eyeing purses and accessories and even gave me 3 of her purses she no longer wanted So I hope the wig request will go over well Fingers Crossed...... PS I had to go on a business trip and I asked her to pick out a nighty for me to wear to bed She picked a silk cami and tap pant set for me..

 

March 2025 Update

I have been in the closet for some time and over the last couple of months I have gained the courage to begin to open the door to my wife on my dressing. After reading many of the girls post on how they told their wifes and the reactions I decided to do it in stages

My wife and I had a corporate evening to attend in another city we packed and flew to destination, checked into the hotel and begun to get ready for the event after my shower I told my wife I seen to have forgotten to pack underware and there is no way I can go comando in this suit, at this time all stores were closed so I could not go shopping to get some. Her items were spread out on the bed and I said give me a pr of your panties, she handed me a nice satin full panty It was a nice cream color with some lace around the waist. Well I put them on got dressed and we went to the event once back in the room at the end of the evening getting ready for bed I told my wife I really loved wearing the panties how nice they felt and well they fitted I slept in her panties that night and next morning I told her I needed my own pr she laughed and said well we will have to go and buy some today. I took another pr of her panties to wear for the day got dressed and we went shopping latter in the day . We headed into a lingerie shop and we her and I picked out a few pr ok ok I was pushing for more than needed for the trip well we picked out a few types full panty, boy short type, bikini type, brazilian and I took a thong and g string she asked you want to try those 2 ??? I said hey if I trying all the types I might as well (little does she know I prefer thongs) Well from that point forward I got to wear panties and we have shopped a few times more.

After about a month we went shopping and strolled into a lingerie shop and while looking at panties I took off the rack a bodysuit all silk and lace and showed my wife and said how nice it looked She said do you like that ??? I told her It looked very pretty I put it into our basket of items and at the cash she saw it was there she did not say anything but when in the car she asked did i know i had put it in the basket I said yes and that I would like to try it she was fine with that ( she does not know but I have quite a few bodysuits already) latter in the week I wore it to bed she asked how I liked it and told her it felt so comfy and I slepted so well wearing it .

We have since purchased a few more (for me). Just a few days ago we when to shop once more and we both saw this sexy looking bra panty set and wife said wow cute panty to bad its a set it was on sale and the set was prices the same as just a nice panty so I got it knowing the bra was a bit too big for me I am 38B the bra was 40C on the week end I had it on both bra and panty told wife i love the snug holding feeling of the bra and loved how it looked with matching panty She noted I needed a better fitting bra next time and she measured me wow a 38B she said lol Next few weeks I will work on nylons/pantyhose I much prefer nylons both stay up and garter style...but Ill not push the issue yet..... So far she has been open and supportive in my wearing these at home baby steps..

little does she know I have a huge closet full of items dresses, skirts, blouses, so so much lingerie, heels, wigs and a few drawers full of accessories over time I will have to begin to bring these out 1 by 1 as if I went shopping on my own ....I think if I proceed slow and progressely with her each step that she would accept not sure if she will participate in continuing to help again baby steps....

 

Update Dec 2024

First of all I wish every one a very happy holiday season and all the best for 2025 as it looks now it might be a rough time for many. I find the world is getting to be such an angry place in all aspects Lets hope that changes soon...

 

Well I have yet to find a local make up artist I like to assist with my make up & lessons But I have found a nice lady to assist with my styling. I was hoping to have a hand for 1 or 2 days to coordinate my clothes what goes with what as you say a set of new eyes on my wardrobe.(of course doing this while wife was out of town for work for a couple of days) But she has turned out to be a great help for me and opening my eyes to new things and ways to wear all the items I have.

 

I am still in the closet to wife, family and friends but it is nice to be able to speak with someone that can help I have a huge storage space (locked walk in closet more like a room) in the Sub basement (basement under basement) that is clean dry and well ventilated that the family never goes down to. only thing there is the mechanical room Heating electrical plumbing etc.

Over the last few months she the stylist has accompanied me to shop for more clothes and accessories which I have gone well overboard lol bought so many shoes purses and costume jewelry and we set up a few fitting days to try on and finish the look. at this rate I may have to rent an apartment for my fem side ...lol well she is helping me alot given me more ideas on how I can look and will post some more photos in the days to come from these fitting days.

God I love being a girl and those of you with dirty minds.... NO not that type of relationship .... she is a professional stylist helping me look to be the woman in me.

 

if any one knows a make up artist in Montreal please let me know I really need this last piece of the puzzle to finish so I can openly present myself and my face

  

Frist Posting

Mature 60s Part time CD in Montreal Canada Love lingerie and fashion, Still need some assistance with make up to look passable.

Love seeing others dressed as well, huge collection and still growing of clothes & shoes. As I see beautiful women walk by - I just wonder Hummmmmmm how would that look on ME I work hard to try to look as natural as possible

there are so many great looking girls on here makes me jealous at both your looks and talent to look so good

Dressing to me just feels right and natural and so relaxing And yes just love seeing myself all dolled up in the mirror.

 

Yet to post any photos of full face as I need help with the make up love to find a mentor to assist with my make up and hair

I am open easy going and non judgmental so girls/ladies feel free to reach out to me