I am a happily married, bi-curious, white, American male with a foot fetish. I am in my early fifties and have been married for well over 20 years. US Army veteran and Harley Davidson biker.

I had been on Flickr previously as Etftlvr, but I deleted my account in an attempt to help curb what I felt was a bit of a porn addiction to which felt I was losing control. I have decided to rejoin Flickr since this is one place where I feel free to express myself with like minded people and occasionally enjoy surfing through and enjoying the many beautiful photos available here and maybe rejoin some of the groups that I used to love. For some reason, stories and fantasies I have posted to groups now show "marvelous hose" as the author, but that was me.

If we were once connected as friends, please feel free to add me again.

Though I consider myself happily married, unfortunately my marriage seems to have devolved into an almost platonic friendship. I am still madly in love and still find my wife painfully sexy, but for years now I am lucky if she is up for some plain vanilla sex a few times a year. I understand that we are not in our twenties anymore, but I desperately want at least some of the passion back. I share a lot of my fantasies in the groups here on Flickr because I can't share them with her anymore. She is not interested at all and it makes me very sad and lonely.

I would love to have a friend-with-benefits male lover with my wife's blessing (not that this will ever happen). Someone with whom I can have the hot, passionate, uninhibited sexual experience that I used to have with my wife. In my fantasies, my wife would encourage me to get together with him as often as I want, even suggesting spending the occasional weekend together.

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