I am 5'8" tall and what you might call a decent person and a part time woman who won't be seeing 50 again and I dress for my own enjoyment! and not for anyone else's.

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Before you read the rest of this please understand that my profile indicates that my values are such that I do things likely in a totally different way way than some of you do but I do not disparage others who think a different way than I do. I have many friends who delve into the less than respectable side of T girling, but that does not stop me from being their friend because when we go out together they always behave appropriately and we always have good clean fun when we do.

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I don't like labels. I think calling me a word such as Tranny or Gurl for what I do for my own amusement is totally dumb assed and is in the realm of *Ridiculously modern day silliness*. I like to wear women's clothes and I don't need to be called anything because I do that, I just do it because I like it! .

Also I think that the only people who really care about what we get tagged as are Us! > No one else really cares! We bring far too much rainfall into our lives without any help from outsiders and worrying about what other people think or say is detrimental so I don't do it.

I am Definitely Not (A Gurl ). I hate that term and think the word sounds so sleazy, uncouth and very unrefined and I am neither of those things!

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I wear a size 9:1/2 shoe and a ( 12 or 14 dress size in Canada ) Sometimes a 16 jacket if the others are too snug a fit as I like to have some breathing room for my clothes. Tight clothing looks ridiculous on most women, **Especially on T Women**! I find it much more attractive to have slightly loose fitting clothes than tight ones which show every flaw I have and a few more and I know that I have more than a few of them here, there and everywhere .. I try very hard to keep my photos from being boring and hopefully you will see them in this light too!

I am Originally from the UK, in the Newcastle area but now live in Canada.

****I'm not A transgendered, transsexual woman trapped in a man's body, a CD, a TG, a TS, SS, FBI, CIA, BBC, BB King, K D Lang or (DD = Dianna Dors) or even Doris Day. I'm just a classic individual. A straight guy who simply likes to dress up occasionally and feel all Girly and Fabulous and very often Glamorous too which in turn makes me feel much younger than my age normally allows me to feel. ***

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[[[ POSTING MY PICS HERE BY *NO MEANS* PERMITS ANYONE FROM USING THEM IN ANY WAY FOR THEIR OWN PURPOSE ]]].

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First off, I am not trying to take a woman's place in society, I suspect that would be futile as I know that I am quite a poor imitation, What I enjoy immensely is dressing as one and experiencing all the nice feelings which arrive on the scene when I do. It makes me very happy and I instantly become a better and more relaxed person.

I don't want to be a girl as I think that it would be a silly move for me. I Do love the feel and the sense of adventure I get from going out in public as a woman though but I also like my other side which has got me quite comfortably to where I am without too much adversity.

I don't enhance my face or blur out all the wrinkles on my photo's these days so the lady you see is really me and not some concocted fantasy view of how I would like to be, I do however make my pics a shade brighter or darker sometimes to bring out the detail if they need it as I am not an expert photographer and have posted darker piccies earlier which later looked like I was trying to hide something and I'm not really into that ! I much prefer honesty in a new friend, Both T and regular kind, especially in a photo which quite often on Flickr looks nothing at all like the real person.

Every now and then I like to take a trip down memory lane and post a few pics which I particularly liked at the time, Sometimes they are the fun variety and show me in a less than complimentary light but we all know that we can never be in perfect photo mode every minute spent in front of a camera and sometimes a really interesting photo comes to light so I like to share those moments with you too. I can and always could laugh at myself and the mistakes I have made so please laugh along with me and enjoy life the way it was meant to be..

I have no illusions about myself, I know that I am not even remotely gorgeous. I just like to dress, that's about all there is to it so if you like what you see, please feel free to let me know via a comment or two on my pics and on the sets too.

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1)Sorry....No pics= No replies.

2)Sorry....Disgusting pics= No replies.

3)Sorry....Guys. I'm not the least bit interested.

4)Sorry....Blank squares. Really, come on now.- Smarten up!

5)Sorry....Gray squares with lines representing a face...Same as #4. = Act your age!

6)Sorry...If you are under 18. Stop doing this, You need to find another outlet for your emotions.

7) If you are here to make fun of what you see.** Before you do** Look in your mirror and ask yourself. "Did I actually like being here and looking at Katie's pics and other men in womens clothes" ? ...The answer is likely Yes, which tells me that by making fun publicly you have told everyone else that you were here in the first place and probably enjoyed it.

8) Please don't use the word Gurl when you refer to us as a group IE:- (Hi Gurls)... I am better than that and so are you.

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I like the cleaner side of being a part time woman so:- --If you feel the need to view my anatomy or my underwear, you will be out of luck because you won't find anything like that in here and If you feel the need to show off yours to me. Don't. ( I hate that ), I am sure there are places out there where you can do that and be accepted quite warmly by the denizens therein so there's absolutely no good reason to add me to your circle of friends now is there?

If someone asks for my friendship and has most of their pics showing their naughty bits in see through underwear or less, I find that an EXTREMELY DISGUSTING WAY TO SAY "HELLO"! . ..The easy fix is - DON'T!...And If that turns your crank then we have nothing at all in common.

Oh and one more thing . I will not favourite your photos or communicate with you regardless of how much I like the dress or the look in the photo if the face is blurred where natural wrinkles would normally be because I think that is a dishonest way to make friends and I don't want to be the only honest one in a 2 way friendship.. so if you doctor your face in every photo then I will not be adding you as a friend. I think it is stupid to be representing yourself on a photo site by posting photos which are not you.

Now that you know what I think, It would be difficult to initiate a friendship that way, Wouldn't you agree? So try the clean way and the honest way, ***It works so much better***.

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JOINING FLICKR GROUPS.

.....................PLEASE READ BELOW CAREFULLY!...................

A) IF I **CAN NOT** SEE WHAT YOUR MEMBERS LOOK LIKE BEFORE ENROLLING IN YOUR GROUP,- IE:-- (Photos can only be seen by members) Then I won't be joining it!

OR.

B) IF THE MAJORITY OF THE MEMBERS ARE IN VARIOUS STATES OF NAKEDNESS. ... I won't be joining it!

OR

C) IF YOUR MEMBERS ARE HIDING BEHIND INFANTILE BLANK SQUARES OR HAVE BLURRED FACES THEN I AM NOT INTERESTED IN BECOMING A MEMBER .

OR

D) IF YOUR CLUB HAS FULL PAGES OF ONE SINGLE PERSONS PICS IN THE SAME CLOTHES IN THE SAME ROOM, THEN FORGET IT. ....THAT IS BORING, EXTREMELY ANNOYING AND IT SHOWS YOUR COMPLETE LACK OF ATTENTION TO THE TYPE OF CONTENT WHICH FINDS IT'S WAY ONTO YOUR GROUP PAGES.

SO I WILL NOT BE JOINING THAT GROUP EITHER.

Or.

IF THE MAIN MODERATOR IS A BLANK GREY SQUARE THEN I AM NOT INTERESTED IN THE LEAST TO BE PART OF ANY GROUP YOU RUN....YOU SHOW ME YOUR PIC AND THEN I'LL SHOW YOU MINE, ...SEE THE POINT?

AND..

I DON'T JOIN GROUPS RUN BY MEN. SORRY!

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Added October 2015.

I FEEL VERY STRONGLY ABOUT THIS SO PLEASE READ IT BECAUSE IT IS IMPORTANT TO ME.

I will not favorite a photo or even bother to communicate with you if you have a blurred and totally smooth face with no wrinkles on it then I look at your hands and they are 40 years older than your face because I think it is very deceitful so if your face is totally smooth and wrinkle free then I see that your neck and hands are not then being honest with yourself you would have to agree that this is a doctored picture and not really you now is it?

Even 20 year olds have laugh lines so don't expect a gushing review of your totally photo shopped face pics because you won't ever receive a kind word from me! What could I possibly say to you without Lying?

If you think this is a bit harsh then you already know in your heart that you are in that category!

Friends with real faces, either gorgeous, attractive or plain are what I admire, not false scared little T girls who are afraid to show their face. Helen Mirren is 70 and looks terrific and the photos I see of her are absolutely phenomenal. Yes complete with some wrinkles and laugh lines, It's called **Maturity**. Go for it, You'll love yourself for the effort.

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AND NOW TO ALL THE NICE ADULTS WHO HAVE LEFT KIND COMMENTS UNDER A PHOTO OR LISTED ME AS A CONTACT AND WRITTEN TO ME.

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Thank you all, I Value your friendship enormously.

Warm Hugs to All who fit into this category.

Katie.