44 year old closeted bisexual male. I am married to a woman, but I also have an interest in men, especially hairy, beefy, and bearded men, much like me! She has recently become aware of my bisexual interests and we are working through this issue together.

I also enjoy gardening, cooking, nature study , collecting antiques and animals. I have several "furry " children. (cats), which are the highlight of my life!

Now that I have officially reached "mid-life", I have started to experiment with men. I guess this is my "mid life crisis" Some guys buy a fancy sportscar, others have an affair with a younger woman. I, on the other hand begin to "start sampling from the other side of the buffet!"

I am a "bear-type body style, chubby and moderately hairy.I have fought the "battle of the bulge" most of my life. In the most recent years, I have become less ashamed of my weight, and less willing to try losing weight. I have also become less ashamed of my body hair and sometimes now wear more "revealing" clothes to show it off!

I enjoy meeting other men who are interested in mutual masturbation and oral sex. I also enjoy "phone sex". I have found the internet an excellent tool to satisfy my curosities and realize there are others out there much like me. I use masturbation as a way to relieve my sexual tension. I wish more men, regardless of sexual orientation would come to accept its use as a safe and satisfying form of sexual release.

I am looking to meet and correspond with gay or bisexual men who have similar interests. I always enjoy meeting new people and look foreward to learning more about others.

If you haven't picked up on my "conversational tone" I have a very bizarrre sense of humor! My motto in life has always been "a dirty mind is a terrible thing to waste!"