I'm a hair stylist from CA. Recent transplant to NJ. Luv art, fashion/style, pop culture addict. New to facebook and treading lightly...

OK, here goes (deep breath), first off, I'm a gay crossdresser. That is, I live my everyday (OUT) life as a NON-closested gay MALE. I AM effeminate in nature in both build and mannerisms, enjoy looking and feeling pretty when time and mood permit, but at the end of the day i'm still a boy with a little something down between my legs. i do consider myself to be passable and try to weigh looking conservative with sexy when i do dress up. i don't want to stand out per se, but i do want to feel beautiful. Dating continues to be a work in progress for me. I like guys that are very straight looking/acting, while i am on the softer side. i'm a gay male (who sometimes enjoys dressing/looking/FEELING feminine). not to stereotype other gay men but a lot of times it really seems straight looking gay/bi guys I am attracted are only into other straight looking guys. (sigh) or they want a transgendered woman and even then only as a sexual fantasy.