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Starting the day with an open mind

Not thinking that this and this must happen today

Just go with the day as the day goes and make plans accordingly as you see how your day is going

Being in the flow

So when I see that fog is incoming and there is actually a sun peaking out of the clouds, then I'm going bananas

I just know there can be a chance of cool light in my paradise

So off we went

And found this

 

Not having expectations is a nice way of living

That is more or less how I live my life

I don't expect anything

I take it as I go along

If I am to meet new people I don't expect that they look like this, behave like this, say like this

I'm openminded

Therefore I never get disappointed either, in these meetings

How could I be disappointed

They act like they do because they are who they are

Who am I to put them in a box surrounded by my expectations, my presumptions

I'm not a God

If I did that I would probably be so disappointed that I would miss great persons in my life, because my expectations had ruined my first impression of them before they actually could come with themselves

Many people don't get their chances to show themselves because of our expectations

Think of all the people there is

All the marvelous great splendid personalities you will never get to know

Just because you in your mind thought they should look or act different

We really should be ashamed of ourselves

We don't need to love everybody 'out there', but we sure shouldn't be the one to judge why people has become what they have become

Give people a chance to come forward with themselves

I think you will be surprised

There are so many nice people 'out there', just waiting for you to get to know them

Why not dare

Yes why not

Us

Gathered

 

Life is a journey

We have proven this

Over and over

Things happen

You are in a flow

You let your intuition tell you what to do

That's always the best journeys

 

Keep our intuition open

Being openminded

Stop thinking so much

Just go with it

 

It is not the easiest way

I can tell you

There are so many questions

And so little answers

 

Because you don't need the answers

You must just trust

 

I do

© Erik Verheyen Photography 2019

Fresh from Pride week, from Madrid

As always, stay curious, dear people ❤️

 

In a world that is constantly evolving, it is crucial to maintain our curiosity. Curiosity is the key to personal growth, creativity, enriching interpersonal relationships and lifelong learning. By staying curious, we open up endless possibilities, enrich our lives and positively influence the world around us. So, let's stay curious and explore the world with open eyes and an open mind.

Are we spending too much time infighting politically and forgetting the real global danger to the entire world. Peace and harmony are the only solutions but in order to achieve them we must work endlessly to that goal.

 

Shouldn't our politicians, news organizations, technology empires and vast corporations get involved in protecting humanity and our environment?

 

With heartfelt and genuine thanks for your kind visit. Have a wonderful and beautiful day, be well, keep your eyes open, appreciate the beauty surrounding you, enjoy creating, stay safe and laugh often! ❤️❤️❤️

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... fences only exist in your mind ...

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This is from 2018 when I DJ'd at a little lesbian club called "Fab". The club was flooded that day for a mermaid theme, but I didn't have a mermaid ensemble to wear, so did the next best thing I could:

 

I DJ'd by submarine. A yellow one of course.

 

Mermaids swam about me as I DJ'd from inside for two hours, coffee in hand. It was delightful :-)

 

I think I am the only person in SL to ever have DJ'd by submarine. Maybe even RL! ;-)

 

A sky of blue, a sea of green. Sexy mermaids swam around my musical submarine. :-)

 

This picture is one of the 124 Flickr's servers up and "ate" out of 142 pictures I had journaled. For reasons unknown, Flickr "ate" the pictures and a team of six of their people took three days to find them again for me. For that I am thankful.

 

Love you all. Stay creative!

 

- Cap'n DJ k8e

  

© Erik Verheyen Photography 2019

Well it was a crazy Monday when I uploaded this image. For some reason after some comments there was a huge blank spot until the next comment. A crazy flickr bug and I guess flickr was having the Monday blues too. Now it's Tuesday and only the name has changed. And so have the Monday blues. I hope everyone that's celebrating Thanksgiving has a great holiday and safe travels.

"I wanna come over

To hell with the consequence

You told me you love me

That's all I believe

I wanna come over

It's a need I can't explain

To see you again

I wanna come over"

 

From "I Want to Come Over" by Melissa Etheridge

 

www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ckt0TuK0qv0

 

Shesa? You always leave your light on for me. Every night, I always just want to touch you once more.

 

You and I have been left behind by those who filled us with fears, some kind of sins...

 

We turned and stopped denying the fire. Now lover, I burn and you let me in.

 

I ALWAYS wanna come over.

 

:-)

 

- Katherine Marie

XOXO

   

"Strange and beautiful

Are the stars tonight

That dance around your head

In your eyes I see that perfect world

I hope that doesn't sound too weird

 

And I want all the world to know

That your love's all I need

All that I need

And if we're lost

Then we are lost together

Yeah if we're lost

We are lost together"

 

From "Lost Together" by Blue Rodeo

 

www.youtube.com/watch?v=cEYdwiVAP9o

 

Every time I get a chance to be peaceful with Shesa, we end up getting lost with each other...the world as we know it gets left behind and we end up in one of our own - always lost in emotion, but always together.

 

I love how we are pushing forward softly, respectfully and lovingly bae...

 

I love getting lost in your arms, eyes and most importantly - your love.

 

Thank you for being ever caring, empathetic, and oh so very romantic hon.

 

I look forward to getting lost together with you again soon.

 

- Your Kitty Katie

 

xoxo

"I-I love the colorful clothes she wears

And the way the sunlight plays upon her hair

I hear the sound of a gentle word

On the wind that lifts her perfume through the air

 

I'm pickin' up good vibrations

She's giving me the excitations

 

Close my eyes, she's somehow closer now

Softly smile, I know she must be kind

When I look in her eyes

She goes with me to a blossom world

 

I'm pickin' up good vibrations

She's giving me excitations

 

Ah, ah, my my, what elation

I don't know where but she sends me there

 

Oh, my my, what a sensation

Oh, my my, what elation

Oh, my my, what

Gotta keep those lovin' good vibrations a-happenin' with her

 

She's giving me the excitations

I'm pickin' up good vibrations"

 

Pulled from "Good Vibrations" by The Beach Boys.

 

www.youtube.com/watch?v=jkPyB-g3asI

 

Shesa and I exploring new places and we take our relationship into new spaces...

 

Lawd I love the vibrations she exudes. The give me "excitations".

 

I love and appreciate you and our new time together Ms Shesa Quandry.

 

I gotta keep those love good vibrations a-happenin' with her...

 

- Katherine Marie

All Happy With Glee

 

XOXO

"You saw through me all this time

I'd forgotten people are kind

I was hurting and you knew

So you showed me what to do

You said "I will listen, tell it all

When you're finished we'll talk more"

But I didn't know how, so we took it in turns

To my surprise we found my words"

 

From "Ready Now" by Dodie

 

www.youtube.com/watch?v=ee41m9AH58w

 

I am ready now...we found my words by taking it in turns...

 

Thank you for understanding me Shesa...

 

With so much love,

 

- Katherine Marie

xoxo

© Erik Verheyen Photography 2019

© Erik Verheyen Photography 2019

For months I had wanted to take my dear friend Panda out ballroom dancing and for reasons unknown to both of us, we never did...

 

Until tonight :-)

 

It was her Birthday last week and my 18th Resday, so we celebrated together at Franks Elite which DEFINES "Ballroom" in Second Life truly.

 

She wore a most princess poofy gown I had gifted her and I put on my finest suit so we could step out properly. Of course we dressed colours to match without knowing we were as we always do ;-)

 

I dipped and twirled her about. She sashayed, curtsied and moved in perfect time in response to me.

 

What a wonderful night :-)

 

I am so lucky and glad we are such good friends.

 

I am so lucky and glad we got to celebrate things in our lives together tonight.

 

I love you lots Gingersnaps!

 

Namaste

 

- Katherine Marie McAuley

Panda is a wonderful soul...an old soul...a caring soul...also a dear friend. She and I have built up a wonderful and true friendship over the last several months, but when we meet and talk, it feels like we are "Like Old Friends".

 

Almost every Sunday and sometimes more often, we meet up and explore SL, dance, sail or just...sit...and talk...

 

You wont find a better Red Panda to talk to in SL I can guarantee it...or a kinder one.

 

Panda is smart, silly, serious, salty, sultry, sexy and most importantly: someone special.

 

I love you to the moon and back Panda. Thank you for being a lighthouse and safe harbour to shelter and confide in after my crossings across storm tossed seas.

 

Be of peace my friend. Namaste.

 

With Love and Caring,

 

- Katherine

 

youtu.be/k07cflKCl-Y?si=gpWv7PJY5qtsKlx_

 

Halcyon On and On by Orbital - the album cut

Ms. Quandry is one of THE best people to lay upon in ALL of Second Life and I will Fight On That Hill!!

 

For reals though, the best part of my days lately are the ends of them as I am with Shesa in world, in her arms or her in mine and we just "are".

 

She is a loving "comfort" that I know is there always for me to lean on as I am for her.

 

The title should read "Shesa: Nice Comfort" perhaps instead, but when will I ever waste a chance to lay down a good pun? ;-)

 

I love you to the stars and and back hon as I know...just know...that the stars are where you fell from.

 

Je t'aime BBG...je t'aime

 

- Your Katie

 

"Things could be stranger but I don't know how

I'm going through changes now

I've spent a lifetime trying to figure it out

I'm going through changes now

 

And I've just begun

Under a purple sun

 

There's many reasons we are what we become

I'm going through changes, ripping out pages

I'm going through changes now

 

I knew it once, but I forgot

I'm going through changes now

We want everything but what we got

I'm going through changes now

 

Maybe it's too soon

Under a purple moon

But I'd ride off with you in a big balloon

 

I'm going through changes, rattling cages

I'm going through changes now

 

Things could be different but I don't know how

I'm going through changes, through all of the strangeness

I'm going through changes now"

 

"Changes" by Langhorne Slim

 

www.youtube.com/watch?v=jK-Tbcy66jY

 

We'll figure it out. We've had lifetimes to figure it out. We'll rip out pages, through all the strangeness. We're ready - together - to go through changes now even if we don;t know how :-)

 

- Katherine Marie to Ms. Quandry

  

Chance stopped in for the night to stay with me in my cabin at Turtle Mountain. A warm duvet and a hot Chance make for a rather cozy and safe place for the night that makes the snow storm outside seem miles away :-)

 

- Katherine

Just remember, truly having a sense of acceptance is meaningless unless it applies to all days of the year.

 

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Very kind, very smart and oh so very cuddly...a Chance encounter :-)

 

I'd say Chance is with me ;-)

 

She's a very good Chance to take...

I’ve been tagged! (Thanks, Roodi!)

Rules are that I must tell you all 16 things about me, so here goes (in no particular order):

 

1. It wasn’t easy, but I have learned to live life without regrets.

2. I try not to judge others (and fail more often than I’d like).

3. I live by a simple philosophy: respect ALL people, ALL animals, ALL life.

4. My parents taught me how to do good and how to be a good person. Thank you, Mom and Dad!!

5. By (random?) chance, I walked out of a hotel at a world religion conference in Chicago (1994?), and found myself face to face with the Dalai Lama, who then personally blessed me.

6. My divorce was the best thing to happen to me. Really.

7. I write fiction; and I used to write poetry, so I’m looking for my Muse to help me find poetry again.

8. I appreciate the small things in life, because, when you think about it, they’re actually the BIG things.

9. I appreciate all that others do for me and for others. I strive to follow their examples.

10. I love my country passionately, but I don’t put nationalism ahead of humanity and humane actions. We are all human beings together on ONE planet.

11. I believe in the natural balance of life on Earth, and I will fight to restore and protect it.

12. I am passionate about wolf reintroduction; they need to return to their place in the wild.

13. I love baseball and the St. Louis Cardinals. I know many, many people can’t understand it, and I’m okay with that, but to me it’s the purest sport in the world. There’s nothing like driving across the Midwest in the summertime with the windows down and a ballgame on the AM radio….

14. I want to live long and enjoy as much about this life as possible, and I want to share it with someone.

15. I long for the day when peace is the norm.

16. I believe in Love.

 

NOTE: NOT a self-portrait... a neighbor borrowed my friend's camera and snapped this for me. Great shot for a 5-year-old. This shot was taken 2 days before my 37th birthday in 2006.

I have a wonderful friend who I treasure more then my own self. I say that because despite all odds against them they have fought a helluva demon that still likes to taunt and try to drag them back into Hell. The same demon took my Dad from me...

 

Each time I see or talk to them, I feel blessed for I never know if I might not see them again...or used to...they fight harder now and the Demon's taunts and seductions get quieter for them...I don't worry as much as I used to.

 

They aren't who they were now. They are much better. They are stronger.

 

They will win.

 

www.youtube.com/watch?v=nKnTjYu4c44

 

Somehow though, when I talk to them, they give me the vibe that listening to Janis Joplin does. They come from the same part of the world, so you never know - maybe Janis came back.

 

I know my compadre came back again...

 

My avatar sits and ponders if she will return in this picture as at the time, she had left...quickly...

 

To the pretty ginger who crinkles her nose so cutely and tells me of travels far and wide...I love you in ways that words can't describe...and I hope..so hope..you heard Janis for that song the way I do and never ever will be the "Little Girl Blue" anymore...

 

This was part of the 124 of 148 pics Flickr ate on me...luckily I remembered the song and who it was for...

 

Love you all...especially Crinkle Nose;-)

 

- Your Katie Kat, For Always

"[00:46] Ҡątίҽ ℳςȺυŁℯƴ (Katie Darlandes): have I told you today I love you yet?

[00:48] Chance Hazelnut: no. but you did try to frnech kiss me :P

[00:48] Ҡątίҽ ℳςȺυŁℯƴ (Katie Darlandes): I DID?!?!?!

[00:48] Chance Hazelnut: yesterday!

[00:48] Ҡątίҽ ℳςȺυŁℯƴ (Katie Darlandes): beats German Kissing

[00:48] Ҡątίҽ ℳςȺυŁℯƴ (Katie Darlandes): I did?

[00:48] Ҡątίҽ ℳςȺυŁℯƴ (Katie Darlandes): when did this happen?

[00:49] Ҡątίҽ ℳςȺυŁℯƴ (Katie Darlandes): in the caravan?

[00:49] Ҡątίҽ ℳςȺυŁℯƴ (Katie Darlandes): was I any good at it?"

 

Grins and giggles...I love you Ms Chance!

 

- O'Katie XOXO

 

© Erik Verheyen Photography 2019

© Erik Verheyen Photography 2019

© Erik Verheyen Photography 2019

Chance and I "chanced" upon each other last night. We are growing closer as friends. We both happened to be readying for bed, She agreed to sleep over with Hobbes and I as Hobbes is a very Brave and Handsome Tiger.

 

We miss our Katie so very much, but know that she can't control when she can be on. In the meantime, Chance and I take care of each other.

 

Last night she needed to be held tight and reassured. I was happy to oblige.

 

I love this pretty girl. She has rapidly become a nice friend.

 

We will be ok. PK will be back sooner then later. In the meantime, Chance and I watch out for each other. We check in every day and do our best to cover what Ms Katie Parx was able to give both of us. - unconditional love and caring.

 

Sleep well pretty girl...We are in good hands until PK gets back - each others.

 

With Love,

 

- Katherine

XOXO

Sooooooooooooo my girlfriend, the forever cute Ms Katie Parx, is BACK in the grid again after a brief absence and I am so H A P P Y about that!

 

Also, fortunately, my OTHER girlfriend, the ever gorgeous Ms Shesa Quandry, popped in to meet Katie for the first time with me, Katie present.

 

So it was a "quandry" with a Quandry, a Katie and a Katie! ;-)

 

WE had a wonderful visit on my back patio surrounded by the trees on the big, comfy couch.

 

I consider myself rather lucky to be loved by both of these remarkable women.

 

I feel even luckier that I get to LOVE both of these remarkable women!! :-)

 

No, it's not a "throuple", it's me as the person who dates both separately. They just happen to get along and are friends :-)

 

I have been in polyamorous situations before, but not quite in this way with me as the "link pin", but love is love and I know whom I love...

 

I also know I AM loved! For that I am humbled and thankful.

 

Katie? Shesa? Know how lucky I feel to be so cared for. Know how much knowing both of you in the way I do makes me feel so fortunate.

 

Thank you for loving me...both of you...

 

Feeling Lucky in Love,

 

- Ms Katherine Marie McAuley

 

These photos are from a photo session I did many months ago with this friend of mine that trusted me enough to take pictures of her. There's a lack of openminded women in the Dominican Republic, and it's hard to find a volunteer like this one, I was lucky. Thank you C.A.

© Erik Verheyen Photography 2019

"Penso che un sogno così non ritorni mai più

Mi dipingevo le mani e la faccia di blu

Poi d'improvviso venivo dal vento rapito

E incominciavo a volare nel cielo infinito

 

Volare, oh oh…

Cantare, ohohoho…

Nel blu dipinto di blu

Felice di stare lassù

 

E volavo, volavo felice

Più in alto del sole ed ancora più su

Mentre il mondo pian piano spariva, lontano laggiù

Una musica dolce suonava soltanto per me"

 

From for "Blue Painted in The Blue (Flying)" ie "Volare" as sung by Domenico Modugno.

 

How my heart flies now...A wonderful "quandry" entered my life and it is one I will gleefully dwell and ponder on as I thought such a dream would never come back...

 

I had painted my hands and my face blue...

 

Then suddenly I was ravished by the wind and I started flying in the infinite sky. I was flying.

 

Flying, oh oh…

Singing, ohohoho…

Blue painted in the blue

Happy to be up there

 

I was flying, flying happily, higher than the sun and even higher whilst the world was slowly disappearing, far beneath.

 

A soft music was playing just for me.

 

Shesa was orchestrating it..

Innamorato di te...

 

Shesa? Sei davvero un bellissimo dilemma.

 

Con tanto amore mio caro,

 

- La signora Katherine Marie McAuley XOXO

  

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