Going out checklist...
Are you ready to go out? First, don't forget to check your handbag! Inside, I always take the following: plenty of cash, driver's license, car insurance documents, mobile phone, one credit card, face powder, lipstick, concealer, mascara, and a couple of safety pins in case something comes loose.
If this is your first time out, I'd suggest you "take" one other item with you: a practiced vocabulary. A lot of newcomers "clam up" on their first night out. They are often so terror stricken, they can't recall how to use their "fem voice". This happened to me, it has happened to others - and it could happen to you.
If you've ever done any public speaking you likely already know this trick. It's very important to memorize your "opening statement". From there - you can wing it.
If you are going to a club, you will be saying these simple phrases quite often:
"I'm Julie, how are you?"
"A dry white wine, please"
"Thank you, hon."
"It's nice to meet you."
"What's your name, sweetie?"
Practicing these common questions and responses in your fem voice, will help you get by much better in that first hour.
And remember - if you ever get pulled over by the police while "en femme" - don't dare fail to stop or give your proper identification. There is no law against a man driving a car in a dress. However, the law is pretty specific about lying to an police officer - you are likely to be arrested.
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1 Feb 13
Going out checklist...
Are you ready to go out? First, don't forget to check your handbag! Inside, I always take the following: plenty of cash, driver's license, car insurance documents, mobile phone, one credit card, face powder, lipstick, concealer, mascara, and a couple of safety pins in case something comes loose.
If this is your first time out, I'd suggest you "take" one other item with you: a practiced vocabulary. A lot of newcomers "clam up" on their first night out. They are often so terror stricken, they can't recall how to use their "fem voice". This happened to me, it has happened to others - and it could happen to you.
If you've ever done any public speaking you likely already know this trick. It's very important to memorize your "opening statement". From there - you can wing it.
If you are going to a club, you will be saying these simple phrases quite often:
"I'm Julie, how are you?"
"A dry white wine, please"
"Thank you, hon."
"It's nice to meet you."
"What's your name, sweetie?"
Practicing these common questions and responses in your fem voice, will help you get by much better in that first hour.
And remember - if you ever get pulled over by the police while "en femme" - don't dare fail to stop or give your proper identification. There is no law against a man driving a car in a dress. However, the law is pretty specific about lying to an police officer - you are likely to be arrested.
IMG_9510
1 Feb 13