PaRCha - JNU - AISA material - 2010 ID-25049
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would allow her to stay informing my landlord (when I was staying at Paschimabad) that this was the reason why she was staying. .
Some instances of suicide threats/self-inflicted injury .
In October she rushed to New Delhi Railway station saying she would commit suicide: eventually we could persuade her to return only by telling her that the police would take action if she made any such attempt. .
In November '07, she threatened to commit suicide, sent an SMS to me at late night and also left a suicide note. When we searched, we found her sitting in the Paschimabad bus stop with a noose (made out of her duputta) hung in front of her. .
In February 2008, she called me in serious depressed tone to meet her in front of her hostel. The moment I reached she started hurting herself with a knife and rushed inside the jungle. It took hours for me and some of the acquaintances to track her down. After two days she barged into my room early morning, started hitting me, took my phone, called up my family and started abusing them. When I took away the phone, she rushed out of the room and ran away into the jungle in Paschimabad-Chandrabhaga area. We had to take the help of JNU security guard to rescue her from the jungle, where she was trying to cut her hand with a knife which she was carrying in her bag. Once again, she was taken to AIIMS in JNU ambulance for treatment. This time also she discontinued her medication. .
I had also spoken about Sarlas condition at length to Dr. Patra in the JNU Health Centre. .
Violence against me and others .
She would time again barge into my house in the New Transit house, indulge in violent behaviour, abuse and threaten my relatives (mother or brother-in-law) whosoever is around. I instructed the JNU security guard at the gate to stop her from entering my house. But often she would threaten the guard or use some other pretext to force her way into the Transit house. .
She also invaded my room in the Centre and threatened me. On 26 April she badly hit me in my home whereby causing minor crack on my left hand, for which I was referred to Safdarjung Hospital. .
Things reached massive proportions on 15 and 16 May 2008, when in my absence she barged into my house forcefully by threatening the JNU Security guard in the New Transit House. I was away in Rajasthan on some research work. She forced into my house thrice during these two days. My brother-in-law was at home. She abused him, broke lock of one of the rooms vandalised my house and took away many of my things including the key to the main door lock. On this occasion her father who was around, finally came and took her away. .
My efforts to involve her family .
On every occasion of attempted suicide etc
I on my own initiative informed her family. When they did not respond to my phone calls, I even went all the way to Rajasthan once for the express purpose of letting them know their daughters condition, and appealing to them that they must take responsibility and secure proper help and care for her. .
I wanted her family to realize that she had suicidal tendencies. So on one occasion I spoke to her sister and she (Sarla) agreed to sign a shapath patra in presence of her sister and my Jeejaji (brother-in-law) in which she admitted that she had self-destructive tendencies (atmaghati pravritti). .
Despite this, unfortunately, the family never took it seriously. Though they often visited her in JNU, but they did not arrange any medical treatment nor did give her any sane advise. Instead they would egg her on to pressurize me for marriage, and would even call me to threaten me with violence. Some of her friends too, adopted the same line: instead of trying to make her see reason, concentrate on her studies and stop this obsession with a relation with me, they fanned up her sense of grievance and egged her on to seek revenge. So now it seems she has made it her obsessive goal to either force me to marry her or to make me lose my job. .
Threatening phone calls .
On 20 May, even after my initial letter to the Proctors office, she made 3 calls demanding to come to my house on one pretext or the other. I repeatedly said no, dont come, categorically, and yet she insisted on coming. Eventually she again barged into my house and took away my pen drive and my MP 3 player on which were some recordings of her threatening phone calls. These 3 calls in which she is insisting on coming to my house in spite of my explicit refusal, are on record. There are also other calls of which I have a record: in which her father .
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PaRCha - JNU - AISA material - 2010 ID-25049
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would allow her to stay informing my landlord (when I was staying at Paschimabad) that this was the reason why she was staying. .
Some instances of suicide threats/self-inflicted injury .
In October she rushed to New Delhi Railway station saying she would commit suicide: eventually we could persuade her to return only by telling her that the police would take action if she made any such attempt. .
In November '07, she threatened to commit suicide, sent an SMS to me at late night and also left a suicide note. When we searched, we found her sitting in the Paschimabad bus stop with a noose (made out of her duputta) hung in front of her. .
In February 2008, she called me in serious depressed tone to meet her in front of her hostel. The moment I reached she started hurting herself with a knife and rushed inside the jungle. It took hours for me and some of the acquaintances to track her down. After two days she barged into my room early morning, started hitting me, took my phone, called up my family and started abusing them. When I took away the phone, she rushed out of the room and ran away into the jungle in Paschimabad-Chandrabhaga area. We had to take the help of JNU security guard to rescue her from the jungle, where she was trying to cut her hand with a knife which she was carrying in her bag. Once again, she was taken to AIIMS in JNU ambulance for treatment. This time also she discontinued her medication. .
I had also spoken about Sarlas condition at length to Dr. Patra in the JNU Health Centre. .
Violence against me and others .
She would time again barge into my house in the New Transit house, indulge in violent behaviour, abuse and threaten my relatives (mother or brother-in-law) whosoever is around. I instructed the JNU security guard at the gate to stop her from entering my house. But often she would threaten the guard or use some other pretext to force her way into the Transit house. .
She also invaded my room in the Centre and threatened me. On 26 April she badly hit me in my home whereby causing minor crack on my left hand, for which I was referred to Safdarjung Hospital. .
Things reached massive proportions on 15 and 16 May 2008, when in my absence she barged into my house forcefully by threatening the JNU Security guard in the New Transit House. I was away in Rajasthan on some research work. She forced into my house thrice during these two days. My brother-in-law was at home. She abused him, broke lock of one of the rooms vandalised my house and took away many of my things including the key to the main door lock. On this occasion her father who was around, finally came and took her away. .
My efforts to involve her family .
On every occasion of attempted suicide etc
I on my own initiative informed her family. When they did not respond to my phone calls, I even went all the way to Rajasthan once for the express purpose of letting them know their daughters condition, and appealing to them that they must take responsibility and secure proper help and care for her. .
I wanted her family to realize that she had suicidal tendencies. So on one occasion I spoke to her sister and she (Sarla) agreed to sign a shapath patra in presence of her sister and my Jeejaji (brother-in-law) in which she admitted that she had self-destructive tendencies (atmaghati pravritti). .
Despite this, unfortunately, the family never took it seriously. Though they often visited her in JNU, but they did not arrange any medical treatment nor did give her any sane advise. Instead they would egg her on to pressurize me for marriage, and would even call me to threaten me with violence. Some of her friends too, adopted the same line: instead of trying to make her see reason, concentrate on her studies and stop this obsession with a relation with me, they fanned up her sense of grievance and egged her on to seek revenge. So now it seems she has made it her obsessive goal to either force me to marry her or to make me lose my job. .
Threatening phone calls .
On 20 May, even after my initial letter to the Proctors office, she made 3 calls demanding to come to my house on one pretext or the other. I repeatedly said no, dont come, categorically, and yet she insisted on coming. Eventually she again barged into my house and took away my pen drive and my MP 3 player on which were some recordings of her threatening phone calls. These 3 calls in which she is insisting on coming to my house in spite of my explicit refusal, are on record. There are also other calls of which I have a record: in which her father .
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