I Am Passing As A Female!
Well I am only saying that but don't really think that. There are certain limitations one must come to terms with such as body size and characteristics from fully passing. But I can tell you that fashion, spirituality, and attitude count a lot towards presenting yourself as a female. It's a really cool feeing for one self and I think it goes a long way in how others perceive you too! Here is a chronological photo collage example from me, clockwise from top left.;
1- Although I had gone shopping plenty of times in girl mode, this was the first time I entered a store and went directly up to a sales woman asking for her help and input in selecting outfits for me. She was enthusiastic and very helpful and I bought one dress and 2 tops there!
2- Years ago I had attended a holiday work party (male mode) on a Friday evening at a rather fancy hotel. I noticed on the hotel schedule that the next evening there were multiple company holiday parties for the next evening. My mind raced a bit and got the courage to dress up nicely and head back to the hotel. There were lot's of people partying dressed to the hilt. So I wondered back and forth to the few cocktail lounge areas and the beautifully decorated lobby. I talked and interacted with so many nice people! The topper of the evening is that while chatting with a group of 3 women at one of the bars they encouraged me to join them in the main (and huge) club, which I had previously shied away from going into. I had a blast with those women partying and dancing with them and they treated me as part of their group the whole time!
3- I took a personal day off of work to live out a fantasy. I decided to go out and try to find a place to try on a wedding gown! It went better than I could ever have imagined visiting 3 different bridal stores and trying on about 14 wedding dresses. This was one of most memorable days as a female and the burst of feminine feelings and emotions I had inside me after slipping into the first wedding gown was truly AMAZING!!
4- My first bra fitting at Victoria's Secret! I wasn't planning on getting fitted for bras but while looking at all the different bra styles I was approached by a very nice sales girl and we started talking about what I was looking for. I was completely honest with her that I use breast forms for my boobs and I believe it was then she realized I wasn't a genuine female ( which she admitted to later before I left). It was at her insistence that we pick out some styles that I liked that she set me up with a dressing room and she would be right back to see how they fit! I nervously opened the door for her when she knocked, me standing there in a skirt with the first bra I tried on. She was professional and informative and even helpful as she helped me in and out of several different bras until we found 2 that worked well for me!
5- After a day of shopping at a mall I decided to stop into the popular bar for their happy hour. I was one of the first patrons in and took a seat at the bar and was able to chat with the very attractive female bar tender since it wasn't busy yet. We talked about the mall and our favorite stores and I just kind of blurted out that I was a crossdresser out having a really fun day so I might not stay long if it got really busy in the bar. She said it will get busy soon as it was Friday but I should stay and have a good time and told me I looked totally cute and not to worry about anything! Next thing I know it was pretty crowded but I felt good and decided to stay and enjoy myself. A rather good looking guy in a suit sat next me and we chatted a for a little while and was totally surprised when he said he was really hungry and asked if I would like to join him for dinner at a nice restaurant across the street! I carefully explained to him who I was and thanked him but I was really wasn't into men. He was surprised and said I looked fabulous and did a really good job of looking the part and he had noticed me as soon as he had entered the bar. That was an ego thing for me because I thought the place was loaded with extremely attractive women!
6- I had visited Florida so many times and had been living here for about a year but had never been to Miami's South Beach area. A close GG friend of mine wanted to show me around so we first went to do a little shopping. I'll tell you that trying on dresses and outfits with a woman is even more fun than doing it by yourself! We went down to the cosmetic counters where she had a girl do a makeup make over on her which was really fun. Then we went to a very posh and crowded restaurant for a bite to eat before heading to the famous beach area. We walked around checking out the sights and it was thrilling being attractive women getting attention from so many people! We ended up going into a few clubs, drinking and dancing to end a totally fantastic girl's day and night out!
I Am Passing As A Female!
Well I am only saying that but don't really think that. There are certain limitations one must come to terms with such as body size and characteristics from fully passing. But I can tell you that fashion, spirituality, and attitude count a lot towards presenting yourself as a female. It's a really cool feeing for one self and I think it goes a long way in how others perceive you too! Here is a chronological photo collage example from me, clockwise from top left.;
1- Although I had gone shopping plenty of times in girl mode, this was the first time I entered a store and went directly up to a sales woman asking for her help and input in selecting outfits for me. She was enthusiastic and very helpful and I bought one dress and 2 tops there!
2- Years ago I had attended a holiday work party (male mode) on a Friday evening at a rather fancy hotel. I noticed on the hotel schedule that the next evening there were multiple company holiday parties for the next evening. My mind raced a bit and got the courage to dress up nicely and head back to the hotel. There were lot's of people partying dressed to the hilt. So I wondered back and forth to the few cocktail lounge areas and the beautifully decorated lobby. I talked and interacted with so many nice people! The topper of the evening is that while chatting with a group of 3 women at one of the bars they encouraged me to join them in the main (and huge) club, which I had previously shied away from going into. I had a blast with those women partying and dancing with them and they treated me as part of their group the whole time!
3- I took a personal day off of work to live out a fantasy. I decided to go out and try to find a place to try on a wedding gown! It went better than I could ever have imagined visiting 3 different bridal stores and trying on about 14 wedding dresses. This was one of most memorable days as a female and the burst of feminine feelings and emotions I had inside me after slipping into the first wedding gown was truly AMAZING!!
4- My first bra fitting at Victoria's Secret! I wasn't planning on getting fitted for bras but while looking at all the different bra styles I was approached by a very nice sales girl and we started talking about what I was looking for. I was completely honest with her that I use breast forms for my boobs and I believe it was then she realized I wasn't a genuine female ( which she admitted to later before I left). It was at her insistence that we pick out some styles that I liked that she set me up with a dressing room and she would be right back to see how they fit! I nervously opened the door for her when she knocked, me standing there in a skirt with the first bra I tried on. She was professional and informative and even helpful as she helped me in and out of several different bras until we found 2 that worked well for me!
5- After a day of shopping at a mall I decided to stop into the popular bar for their happy hour. I was one of the first patrons in and took a seat at the bar and was able to chat with the very attractive female bar tender since it wasn't busy yet. We talked about the mall and our favorite stores and I just kind of blurted out that I was a crossdresser out having a really fun day so I might not stay long if it got really busy in the bar. She said it will get busy soon as it was Friday but I should stay and have a good time and told me I looked totally cute and not to worry about anything! Next thing I know it was pretty crowded but I felt good and decided to stay and enjoy myself. A rather good looking guy in a suit sat next me and we chatted a for a little while and was totally surprised when he said he was really hungry and asked if I would like to join him for dinner at a nice restaurant across the street! I carefully explained to him who I was and thanked him but I was really wasn't into men. He was surprised and said I looked fabulous and did a really good job of looking the part and he had noticed me as soon as he had entered the bar. That was an ego thing for me because I thought the place was loaded with extremely attractive women!
6- I had visited Florida so many times and had been living here for about a year but had never been to Miami's South Beach area. A close GG friend of mine wanted to show me around so we first went to do a little shopping. I'll tell you that trying on dresses and outfits with a woman is even more fun than doing it by yourself! We went down to the cosmetic counters where she had a girl do a makeup make over on her which was really fun. Then we went to a very posh and crowded restaurant for a bite to eat before heading to the famous beach area. We walked around checking out the sights and it was thrilling being attractive women getting attention from so many people! We ended up going into a few clubs, drinking and dancing to end a totally fantastic girl's day and night out!