Day 225: The thing about love

My 13th secret is this: I have experienced too many cases of unrequited love. If I were given a pound for each time, I'd be rich. Well. Nearly.

 

Continuing on from yesterday's Day 224: Not so lucky [in terms of love]. I said I wasn't lucky in love. And well, it all boils down to the fact that I always like people who don't like meeee.

 

I spent the majority of my teenage years and uni days obsessed with finding the right guy. Getting clued up on relationships. Just spent a lot of time thinking about it. So much so I'd always experience a thing called unrequited love, because I wanted so badly to be in a relationship. But the funny thing is, it makes me stronger every time I experience it. Up until last year [oh it had gotten sooo bad] I experienced it. But thank God all these things have now stopped. This whole thing with unrequited love.

 

And one of the reasons was this. I stopped obsessing over it. Stopped getting myself involved with books regarding love and relationships. I took Katie Eee's advice to stop thinking about it. I've pretty much put my attention into other areas.

So that's kind of helped. You know. Leave it with God sort of thing.

 

And what's funny is when my friends all turn to me for relationship advice. And I give it to them. How I have gained such knowledge? I would say, through obsessing over it and getting clued up on it throughout the years. So it's a blessing and a curse, in some respects.

 

For the rest of this month of May, I have decided to take this opportunity to do the

30 SECRETS IN 30 DAYS challenge! I will tell you my secrets. Day-by-day :) Ok, some may seem like facts, but they're still things not many people know about, thus qualifying them to BE secrets. Heh.

Done